Let us do away with some myths first.
Myth Number 1:
A common one is that any time is OK so long as you can arouse your partner. That is not so. Your partner's need for sex and response to it will depend a lot upon the time of the day, her mental condition at the time and other things like whether she is tired or hungry.
Face it, would you really be interested in sex when you are starving or have a headache? Be sensitive to your partner's need. When he or she says they are not interested, it is not a personal insult to you or your technique. They may not be feeling like it, it is as simple as that!
Myth Number 2:
No matter what you have been told, bigger is not always better. In fact, the most sensitive area of a woman's body is on the outer part of the vagina. You need to be just about three inches long when you have an erection to be able to reach her most erogenous part. So, don't worry about being small. The trick lies in your technique, and not on your tool!
You must have heard or read about the need for foreplay, so we won't go into that again. Just remember that surprise is the greatest turn on. Don't go by the book, try out a few surprise moves. If you have been kissing her on the neck for eternity, try her lips for a change. You could even let her have a go at getting YOU excited. Don't hesitate to try out new positions. You might discover something that surprises you both!
Come to think about it, the greatest sex secrets are no secrets at all. You knew them all along. You just need to put them into practice along with new sex toys online, luxury vibrators and male sex toys!